I didn’t really realize the implications when Buddy died. I wasn’t thinking of being dogless.
My daughter has been “borrowing” Sophie to help her get through the loss of Buddy. I understand this and wholeheartedly support it. She slept with Buddy for 14 years, she needs something breathing next to her at night. I’ve been there.
Chester is truly Bill’s dog. He does everything and goes everywhere with him. He spent the last week in Rowe with me but I know he missed being with Bill (except maybe for the one night he got to sleep on the bed with Cait while she was visiting). He seemed to smile about that for days.
I realized yesterday that my life with dogs centers around food and being outdoors. I was baking all day and doing it with Julia Child’s style – in other words I was making a HUGE mess. Normally when things end up on the floor the dogs are there to pick it up. I’m thinking I may not even realize how much of a mess I make because the dogs are cleaning up after me. This may sound disgusting but I know anyone reading this who has a dog knows exactly what I’m talking about.
The other thing is they love to be outdoors. Every single time I open a door to the outside world they are out. There’s something to be said about not having to go out when the temperatures are below zero but there is also something about being forced to breathe fresh air regardless of the chill. They also show me how wonderful winter can be. They love the snow – LOVE it. I forget how much they love it each year until the first snow when their total delight and enthusiasm is hard to miss. The thing is they never get sick of it, no matter how long the winter is.
We can all learn lessons about loving our circumstances by hanging out with our dogs. They are happy and content with just being as long as they are with their people. Definitely something to aspire to.
8 thoughts on “Dogless”
Sorry you are dogless. I always feel bad because i know how much it sucks to not have one. Just think, March 10th-19th Sophie is ALL yours 😉 lol
I don’t think I could live without a farm dog(s). Hugs!!
Sadie, the catahoula, and I send our heartfelt sympathies.
I call my dog my exercise machine. The best thing is a dog can’t be ignored.
There is something calming about a relationship with a dog. We’ve had several and loved each one but there’s always that special one and for us it was a collie mix named Ginger. I still miss that kind, gentle soul.
Excellent post, I am sorry for your loss I know how hard it is to lose a loved one. Yes, I am sad to say that I know exactly what you are talking about concerning the resident floor patrol.
Whew, I didn’t think I was alone in that!
Because they live in the moment, they teach us to slow down and not fret about the future. Hope one finds you soon!